It used to be about love, but now it’s about identity. “It” of course is sexuality…the purpose and pleasure of having sex. Humans need intimacy to thrive. Finding the right person to be intimate with is incredibly difficult especially when your goal is to have a meaningful relationship. Let’s face it, sex without the meaningful relationship is actually just basic animal instinct. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather not live an animal’s existence.

Puberty for a human is hard enough even without the social pressures. Physical and emotional changes in puberty challenge the individual because these changes happen differently to everyone…Humans are not monolithic and interchangeable. Societal standards like those found in family, religious or cultural relationships are used to help us through these challenges therefore we must also acknowledge that families, religions and cultures are not monolithic and interchangeable. Traditional standards help to ground the individual with a starting point…The ending point is their own individual journey secured by a Constitution that elevates life, liberty and their pursuit of happiness.

Being gay, lesbian or bisexual is more than having a “lifestyle”. Increased awareness through the decades if not centuries has exposed the fact that attraction and intimacy between same sex partners exists beyond the border of sex as the method for procreation. Humans are gifted with an intelligence that does not have a real border. Yet, humans must have borders that are natural (of God our Creator) and material (of man such as through imposed laws by the state or by cultural traditions). If there are no perceived borders, then the individual is susceptible to manipulation of their identity. It’s literally “identity theft “.

The cultural borders of sex (the act of having sex) are being challenged by the human desire for sexual exploration. The act of having sex should not be confused with one’s gender identity though. Gender is a binary fact and identity is subjective based on feelings. For instance; I am a biological woman who feels best when I don’t have to wear makeup or dresses. Makeup and dresses are simply a costume to help me appear more feminine. Mostly I like to wear pants, cute tops, very little makeup if any and my eyeglasses instead of my contacts. And, I hope that my family and friends accept that about me. I am not a man because I don’t wear makeup and prefer pants. I am a biological woman with makeup and clothing preferences which are subjective and are things that I can easily change depending upon the circumstances or my mood. My biology cannot change, my genetics cannot change, and my attraction to the opposite gender I would not change. No one except my romantic partner needs to know about my sex-act preferences beyond the fact that I am attracted to men. Anything else is TMI. This is true for anyone no matter how they identify as a unique individual. Exploring safe sex-act pleasure should only be done in a loving and respectful adult relationship, even if that relationship is with yourself.

There is only one YOU. Your Creator made you a physical temple for you to respect and care for because you only get one body. Your Creator gifted you a metaphysical temple to humbly learn about your unique talents and spiritual journey toward enlightenment and wholeness with the universe which we all inherit. Your body and soul are exclusively yours. Treat them with a high regard for a healthy development.

Change your name and your costume, but don’t change your healthy body parts. You might be surprised what manipulators are capable of having you do to yourself and your standards. Think about it! How far would you be willing to go to change your subjective discomfort? Does full body transgenderism lead to trans humanism? Advancements in AI could lead us to it. Could YOU be lead to it? If so then it’s sadly the most perverse ideology coming for us.

Please, keep your personhood authentic and not vulnerable to God-less manipulation.